Q: I need help I never told anyone this and I always go through life with a strong face but I need help... I can't do it anymore.I fell in love with this guy & he was going through rough times and I lent him $$ through out. It adds up ... 8k. I hate my job & I wanna leave but now I'm 8k in debt... What should I do? I fee like I'm drowning. I've asked him to pay back and there's always an excuse. I hate waking up in the morning. I hate where I am. Help me. Please.
First of all, you need to get your money back and you can’t take any excuses. Tell him you’re struggling, he’s being disrespectful and taking advantage of you. He needs to start paying you back in increments. Then start looking for another job before you quit the current one. Don’t be afraid to wake up just TAKE ACTION. It’s your life and you deserve to be happy. You have to act.